{"id":9306,"date":"2025-02-07T07:06:12","date_gmt":"2025-02-07T15:06:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.nestuccaspitpress.com\/blog\/?p=9306"},"modified":"2025-02-07T07:06:12","modified_gmt":"2025-02-07T15:06:12","slug":"stocking-cap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nestuccaspitpress.com\/blog\/meditations\/stocking-cap\/","title":{"rendered":"Stocking Cap"},"content":{"rendered":"<!-- wp:themify-builder\/canvas \/-->\n\n\n<p>Elmer the husky and I strolled around the park on a Monday afternoon. It was cold and dry with a bit of breeze whipping through the trees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A few minutes earlier we had stopped and I had a pleasant conversation with Perry, a homeless man in his late 60s who lives out of a kind of Conestoga wagon parked in front of an apartment building. He picks up trash all day long and I always tip him a few bucks when I see him working.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perry was in fine spirits and he asked me my history of coming to the neighborhood. I told him about my father in assisted living. He asked how much that cost and when I shared the amount, he cursed. He admired Elmer. We said something about the park and then Elmer and I went along.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thirty yards away a homeless woman on a bicycle was stopped in the parking lot. She had her possessions strapped across her back and the bicycle, an old mountain bike model. One of the possessions was a large metal pail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She saw me and Elmer approaching and said<em> hello <\/em>and said <em>what a good looking dog<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I asked her how she was doing and she said <em>all right <\/em>with a smile. I put her in her 30s or 40s. She wasn&#8217;t addled in any way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We said goodbye and Elmer and I continued on to my car, roughly 50 yards away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I loaded Elmer into the car and turned around to see the woman bicycling toward us, very slowly, a little ungainly. It was then I noticed she wore no hat and it was 40 degrees with colder temperatures forecast for the coming days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Give her one of your extra stocking caps<\/em>, I thought.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I called out to her, \u201cHey could you use a stocking cap?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She rode up to me and stopped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cSure,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I dug out a real beauty\u2014a hand knitted one, brown, green, orange, floppy, groovy, purchased from a real knitter at a craft fair over a decade ago. It was my emergency stocking cap and here was an emergency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I gave her the cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWow, this is really nice,\u201d she said, pulling it on, then pulling it down low. It looked good on her. Very 70s chic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThank you,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cYou are welcome. Be careful out there.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She rode away, but not before making a subtle adjustment to the cap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I felt good. It always feels good to give new purpose to an item that needs a new one and give it away to someone in need. It costs nothing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Elmer the husky and I strolled around the park on a Monday afternoon. It was cold and dry with a bit of breeze whipping through the trees. 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